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Ricky Guadarrama : AuthorAs a husband, father, counselor, pastor, soldier, and Army Chaplain, I have experience interacting with a variety of personalities and cultures. I also have the gift of being impartial and will listen to you and your story without judgment. With God’s direction, I will offer truth with grace, which allows for healing and change. As we enter this counseling journey, my full intent is to help you find healing and freedom. Your healing is my top priority. Ultimately, it is my goal for you to find a rich relationship with Jesus that will sustain you for the rest of your life.
Being agreeable sounds like a good thing, right? In fact, as a child, you were probably told to “just get along” with your siblings or to “just go with the flow” during family vacation. Being agreeable can be a good thing and often appears to be humility and love, but for people pleasers, the motive isn’t love at all; it’s fear. People pleasers don’t want to upset anyone, so they say “yes” to everything. They go along with the
There is never a “good time” for a family crisis. Whether things seem good or not, family crises rock people to their core. Whether it is a turn in the financial markets, the economy, the sudden discovery of infidelity, or the sudden death of a loved one, a family crisis has the potential to destroy family cohesion and end marriages. For Christian families, these situations become more complex. There are certain things they must weigh when walking out their
The death of a loved one is a significant, emotional event. No matter how much someone might try to prepare for it, it still hits people hard. Death is a reality for us all, yet being able to process the death of a loved one is difficult. Though some close friends or family members mean well, their efforts to cheer a grieving person can at times cause more harm than good. It’s okay to be unsure of how to


